ŞAŞKINLIK AMA NEDEN?

<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">İnsanlar şaşkın. Her kafadan bir ses &ccedil;ıkıyor. Herkesin y&uuml;z&uuml;nden d&uuml;şen bin par&ccedil;a. Sokakta trafikte, evde, işte hep bir gerginlik, telaş, stres var. Akıl, mantık, izan, &ouml;l&ccedil;&uuml;, sabır, tahamm&uuml;l, sevgi saygı kavramaları anlamını yitirmiş durumda. Su&ccedil;lamalar, hakaretler, keyfilikler, istismarlar, yalanlar, dolanlar, talanlar almış başını gidiyor.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Kimi din adına, kimi &ccedil;ağdaşlık adına, kimi bilim adına, kimi şeytan adına</font></span></b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">; konuşuyor yazıyor, eleştiriyor, &ouml;neriyor, bağırıyor, &ccedil;ağırıyor. Ancak herkes bildiğini okuyor.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">G&uuml;&ccedil; ve yetki sahipleri, yandaşı candaşı yoldaşı, mutlu mu mutlu. Kim mutsuz, huzursuz?</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Eflatun&#39;a İki Soru Sormuşlar;</font></span></b></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Birincisi, İnsanoğlunun sizi en &ccedil;ok şaşırtan iki davranışı nedir ?</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Eflatun tek tek sıralamış,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&Ccedil;ocukluktan sıkılırlar ve b&uuml;y&uuml;mek i&ccedil;in acele ederler.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Ne var ki &ccedil;ocukluklarını &ouml;zlerler.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Para kazanmak i&ccedil;in sağlıklarını yitirirler.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Ama sağlıklarını geri almak i&ccedil;in de para &ouml;derler.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Yarınlarından endişe ederken bug&uuml;n&uuml; unuturlar.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Sonu&ccedil;ta, ne bug&uuml;n&uuml;, ne de yarını yaşarlar.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Hi&ccedil; &ouml;lmeyecek gibi yaşarlar.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Ancak hi&ccedil; yaşamamış gibi &ouml;l&uuml;rler.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Sıra gelmiş ikinci soruya;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">-Peki sen ne &ouml;neriyorsun?</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Bilge yine sıralamış,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Kimseye kendinizi sevdirmeye kalkmayın !</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Yapılması gereken tek şey, sadece kendinizi sevilmeye bırakmaktır.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&Ouml;nemli olan; hayatta, en &ccedil;ok şeye sahip olmak değil, en az şeye ihtiya&ccedil; duymaktır.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Albert Follanberg&rsquo;a g&ouml;re, Başarı nedir?</font></span></b></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">04 yaşında başarı donuna işememektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">12 yaşında başarı arkadaş bulabilmektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">16 yaşında başarı araba s&uuml;rebilmektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">20 yaşında başarı seks yapabilmektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">35 yaşında başarı para kazanabilmektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">50 yaşında başarı &ccedil;ok para kazanabilmektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">60 yaşında başarı seks yapabilmektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">70 yaşında başarı araba s&uuml;rebilmektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">75 yaşında başarı arkadaş bulabilmektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">80 yaşında başarı donuna işememektir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Einstein der ki;</font></span></b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000"> D&uuml;nya k&ouml;t&uuml;l&uuml;k yapanlar y&uuml;z&uuml;nden değil, yapılan k&ouml;t&uuml;l&uuml;klere seyirci kalıp, hi&ccedil;bir şey yapmayanlar y&uuml;z&uuml;nden tehlikeli bir yerdir.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Tolstoy der ki;</font></span></b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000"> K&ouml;t&uuml;ler, kendilerine tahamm&uuml;l edildik&ccedil;e daha &ccedil;ok azarlar.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Shakespeare der ki:</font></span></b></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Kendimi her zaman mutlu hissederim. Neden biliyor musunuz?</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; kimseden bir şey ummam.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Beklentiler daima yaralar.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Hayat kısadır.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&Ouml;yleyse hayatınızı sevin.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Mutlu olun ve g&uuml;l&uuml;msemeye devam edin.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Sadece kendiniz i&ccedil;in yaşayın ve;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">- konuşmadan &ouml;nce dinleyin,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">- yazmadan &ouml;nce d&uuml;ş&uuml;n&uuml;n,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">- harcamadan &ouml;nce kazanın,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">- dua etmeden &ouml;nce bağışlayın,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">- incitmeden &ouml;nce hissedin,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">- nefret etmeden &ouml;nce sevin,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">- vazge&ccedil;meden &ouml;nce &ccedil;abalayın,</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">- &ouml;lmeden &ouml;nce yaşayın.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Hayat budur. Onu hissedin, onu yaşayın ve ondan hoşnut olun.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">&nbsp;</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">G&uuml;n&uuml;n S&ouml;z&uuml;;</font></span></b><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000"> Kendine de zaman ayır, d&uuml;ş&uuml;n, &ouml;zg&uuml;rleşirsin.</font></span></p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> &nbsp;</p><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"> <span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;"><font color="#000000">Nurullah AYDIN</font></span></p>